How to Get Over Adultery in a Marriage- From a Divorce Lawyer’s Viewpoint

How to get over adultery in a marriage

Recently, Duston Holloway from Texas to find his girlfriend drunk and asleep next to a shirtless man. While most people in Holloway’s shoes would be to scream and yell, Holloway whipped up his phone and started taking photographs of them in bed. In fact, he even posed for a selfie in front of them. He later shared the pictures on Facebook with the tagline: “When you come home to another man in your bed with the one you loved! Good men deserve good women.”

Holloway admitted that he had wanted to “kick” the man but he ended up calmly taking selfies. He did try to wake his girlfriend up but she was too drunk.

Holloway’s photographs went viral and thousands around the world have contacted him, praising him for staying collected in such a situation. Holloway later thanked everyone for the support he received. He said that the support he received made him feel like “the world ain’t as bad as we think”.

See: “Who’s been sleeping in my bed? Man takes pictures when he returns home to find his girlfriend in his bed with ANOTHER MAN- and then posts them online”,, 25 April 2017

As a divorce lawyer in Singapore, I have had many clients asked me about how to get over adultery in a marriage.

Unfortunately, I do not have an answer because everyone deals with it differently. I have had clients who think about getting back, or who just want to walk away and never see their spouse again.

My advice is: time heals. It may be painful at the start but with the passage of time, you will walk out of it. Stay strong!

If you would like to discuss about how to get over adultery in a marriage, contact us today!

You may also be interested to read more about:

1. Divorce and Separation

2. Annulment (Nullity) of Marriage

3. Children’s Issues

4. Matrimonial Assets

5. Maintenance Issues (Alimony)

6. Family Violence

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