As a divorce lawyer in Singapore, I have heard many extramarital affairs stories in Singapore.
Extramarital affairs stories in Singapore
It is not easy to come to terms with the fact that you are living one of the many extramarital affairs stories in Singapore.
Different people do different things to spite their other half. Some just let it go and start life afresh.
Story of Betsy Ayala
One woman, Betsy Ayala, 34 found out a few months after giving birth to her daughter that her husband was cheating on her. She accidentally saw text messages between her husband and his colleague and found out that they had been mocking her over her weight.
At that point, she was trying to get into shape when she saw the messages. Ayala was with her husband since the age of 17 and was devoted to him. She was devastated when she found out about the extramarital affair.
Ayala channelled her negative feelings into determination and cut out snacks. She began working out in the gym and doing Zumba.
4 years on, Ayala has lost more than 100 pounds and is a wellness coach for those trying to shed extra kilos.
Ayala said: “Now I honestly feel that what he did was a blessing because otherwise I would have been the way I was forever. I prayed all the time for my life to change and my prayers were answered.”
See: Jessica Ankomah, “Mom loses 107 Ibs to spite husband and mistress who called her fat”, Yahoo Canada Style, 8 June 2017
Everybody comes to terms with their spouse’s extramarital affairs stories in Singapore differently. However, Ayala has done it in a beautiful way.
Sometimes, the best revenge is to live a better life.
Talk to us if you are struggling to come to terms with your spouse’s extramarital affairs in Singapore. We are here to help.